All my life, I’ve been interested in sex. Almost all of my investigations and the story-writing I did was solitary. Of course, I had friends, but we never discussed sex in detail. From early on, I discovered I was into BDSM. I think I might have brushed upon the subject …
How We Used Goals to Structure Our BDSM Relationship My dominant and I are in a 24/7 D/s relationship, but things haven’t always been this way. We struggled with how to fit BDSM into our daily life. Since we didn’t have any friends to discuss this with, it was challenging …
Four Steps of Getting Things Back These past few weeks, I’ve not been well. I’m trying out a new diet in an attempt to lose some weight, but I’m struggling to find the right balance. It proves to be difficult to still get all nutrients and vitamins when forgoing all …
Still Waters Run Deep Grounds I’ve always been the silent type. Part of this is my personality, the other part is learned behavior. I learned at an early age that it was better to keep quiet in order not to unleash anger in my mother. Later in life, I also …
Is BDSM Dangerous? The mainstream media depict BDSM as something highly dangerous. You see people with mascara-stricken faces with tears in their eyes. The emphasis is on latex, leather hoods, cuffs, whips, clamps. And yet, I don’t see BDSM as strictly dangerous. You seek limits, sure, so you might get …
Silence I come from a family of non-talkers, on both sides actually. We would talk about our day. We would talk about the music we liked, the movies we watched, where to go on vacation. But don’t you dare talk about your inner life. We didn’t share our ailments, our …
