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Consent – In Fiction and in Real Life
Consent - both in relationships and in fictionImage by Gerd Altmann from Pixabay  "Is it okay if I touch you?" he asked."Yes, please," she moaned in response."And is...
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Liz BlackX: Music, Suicide and Grief
The Story of My Father Trigger warning: This post deals with the death of a person by suicide and with sadness and grief. The post...
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Music During My Darkest Hours
Music works for me like these rays of light shining through the cloudsPhoto by Jeremy Bishop on Unsplash My life has never been easy. Going over this list...
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Fiction – Seven Minutes in the Closet
"Tongue kisses?" I pulled up my nose. "I hate them."  The others looked at me amusedly. "Why? Don't you think it's hot?" my idol rock star...
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Liz BlackX: Music and Writing
Music and Writing: Yes Music and Liz. The topic is too big to handle almost. I've been mulling over this subject for three days. I've...
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Finding That One Dream to Pursue
Job of Dreams It was a long and dark road, but with light shining at the end ☺️Photo by Iva Rajović on Unsplash Watching porn as part of...
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Seasonal Affective Disorder: Have a Merry Gloomy Christmas
Merry Christmas! I have a soft spot for cuddly Rudolphs 😌No matter how down I feel, they always make me smile.Photo by Tim Gouw on Unsplash I love...
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Why I Blog: From Never to Weekly
I will never start a blog. Photo by Aryan Dhiman on Unsplash About a year ago, I listened to Kayla Lords' 'Smutlancer' podcast, and her first advice to...
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3 Things to Tell My 10-year-old Self
Photo by Emma Trevisan on Unsplash The original prompt was to give advice to your 5-year-old self, but I thought that to be too young. The prompt didn't...
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Our Rituals: Personal, and Meaningful
Where to Begin? Rituals are about connection Photo by Wilson Sánchez on Unsplash Even though my husband and I connected because of our kink interests, our D/s wasn't...
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