How We Used Goals to Structure Our BDSM Relationship My dominant and I are in a 24/7 D/s relationship, but things haven’t always been this way. We struggled with how to fit BDSM into our daily life. Since we didn’t have any friends to discuss this with, it was challenging …
I hate aftercare. Usually, when my dominant and I play, we round off our play with an orgasm for me. And after an orgasm, I just want to sleep. I’m not one of those who like to cuddle and kiss afterwards. I want to turn around and go to sleep.But …
Spanking as Domestic Discipline As I described in this post about spanking, I’ve come to love impact play. We’ve added spankings to our regular play. And yet it’s still difficult for me to submit to a spanking, or even worse, ask for them. Why is it so hard, and what …
Four Steps of Getting Things Back These past few weeks, I’ve not been well. I’m trying out a new diet in an attempt to lose some weight, but I’m struggling to find the right balance. It proves to be difficult to still get all nutrients and vitamins when forgoing all …
Content Warning: There are mentions of disease in this text Surrender One of the aspects of BDSM I struggle with is giving up control. Literally surrendering to my Dominant. No matter the circumstances, I’m always in control, or so I like to think. As the submissive, I know I’m supposed …
BDSM My Dominant and I are not adventurous or daring. In general, we stay well within our limits. I feel you could make a case for all BDSM-play to be considered edge play. I know many vanilla people would shudder in disgust with how my husband treats me, where it …
Content Warning: This story contains themes of adultery and dubious consent. No characters were harmed during the recording of this tale. The collar stared at me from the dashboard. I hated the symbol of our relationship. Our broken relationship, I should say. His betrayal had erased all good memories. For …
Only one more day of relaxation, Lindy mused while she was folding the laundry. Tomorrow she would have to go back to work. The first day after the holidays always seemed the hardest. Her holidays had been great, spending time with family. The other days of her time off, she …
Control and Trust Being a submissive, I give up control. That’s kind of in the job description. But it’s not that easy, nor that straightforward. Because tied to control is trust. You can only give up control unless you trust the person you’re handing it over to. Or, as in …
Weekend Fun Last weekend I was at a rope event. Bear in mind that I am new to the off-line BDSM-world. All I’ve ever done with bondage was at home. Ninety per cent of the time was in the comfort of the bedroom. I love attending these peer-ropes. I’m still …
