Only one more day of relaxation, Lindy mused while she was folding the laundry. Tomorrow she would have to go back to work. The first day after the holidays always seemed the hardest. Her holidays had been great, spending time with family. The other days of her time off, she …
Control and Trust Being a submissive, I give up control. That’s kind of in the job description. But it’s not that easy, nor that straightforward. Because tied to control is trust. You can only give up control unless you trust the person you’re handing it over to. Or, as in …
Weekend Fun Last weekend I was at a rope event. Bear in mind that I am new to the off-line BDSM-world. All I’ve ever done with bondage was at home. Ninety per cent of the time was in the comfort of the bedroom. I love attending these peer-ropes. I’m still …
Silence Please I’m a bad submissive. I mean, I try really hard to be a good girl, and overall I’m not that bad, but communication-wise, I’m a terrible sub. I don’t talk. During play, I want to withdraw into myself, and either enjoy the sensations or overlay them with my …
“Is it okay if I touch you?” he asked. “Yes, please,” she moaned in response. “And is it all right if I kiss you?” he inquired. “Yes, please do.” “You’re really okay with me kissing you?” he asked to be sure. It is so much better when things are consensual, …
Where to Begin? Even though my husband and I connected because of our kink interests, our D/s wasn’t immediately the way it is now. Over the past ten years, we struggled to get it into a shape we both enjoyed. Early on, we both had losses in our families, we …
We Don’t Do Public Play Once a friend asked my husband and me: ‘Do you guys do public play?’ ‘No, no, no,’ we replied. ‘That’s not us.’ He continued: ‘I wish I had a partner with whom I could do play in public. You know, little things, like pulling hair …
Liz the Witch Funnily enough, my personal preference for bondage started with an imaginary version. One time, as a kid still in primary school, I was playing with the neighborhood kids, and somehow, I ended up as the evil witch being chained and locked away. Just for the record, there …
A big man, clad in leather, slashing out with his long whip. His vibe is mean and intimidating. Everyone around him cowers in fear. Is this what being a Dominant in BDSM is like? Do you really need to wear leather or use painful implements? What if I don’t like …
No Hugs, Just Spanking I’m one of the most unromantic people in the world. That’s why I decided to take this challenge when I saw this meme. In all fairness, I push my husband away more often than that I show affection. I don’t do hugs, cuddles, and random kisses. …
