The original prompt was to give advice to your 5-year-old self, but I thought that to be too young. The prompt didn’t leave my mind, so I decided to write a post on it, but to my 10-year-old self instead. Another World I was ten when I moved from a …
Where to Begin? Even though my husband and I connected because of our kink interests, our D/s wasn’t immediately the way it is now. Over the past ten years, we struggled to get it into a shape we both enjoyed. Early on, we both had losses in our families, we …
We Don’t Do Public Play Once a friend asked my husband and me: ‘Do you guys do public play?’ ‘No, no, no,’ we replied. ‘That’s not us.’ He continued: ‘I wish I had a partner with whom I could do play in public. You know, little things, like pulling hair …
When I saw the subject of this prompt, I struggled with it for many days. Was I going to write about my own taboos? About the general ideas of taboos in sexuality? After reading the other entries for this prompt, I felt compelled to go a step further than how …
Liz the Witch Funnily enough, my personal preference for bondage started with an imaginary version. One time, as a kid still in primary school, I was playing with the neighborhood kids, and somehow, I ended up as the evil witch being chained and locked away. Just for the record, there …
Still Waters Run Deep Grounds I’ve always been the silent type. Part of this is my personality, the other part is learned behavior. I learned at an early age that it was better to keep quiet in order not to unleash anger in my mother. Later in life, I also …
A big man, clad in leather, slashing out with his long whip. His vibe is mean and intimidating. Everyone around him cowers in fear. Is this what being a Dominant in BDSM is like? Do you really need to wear leather or use painful implements? What if I don’t like …
No Hugs, Just Spanking I’m one of the most unromantic people in the world. That’s why I decided to take this challenge when I saw this meme. In all fairness, I push my husband away more often than that I show affection. I don’t do hugs, cuddles, and random kisses. …
All or Nothing Early on, I have acknowledged and accepted my submission. For the longest time, I craved having a sexual Dominant male in my life. In my dreams, I would give up everything. Without a clear picture of how this would impact my life, I wanted to surrender my …
Childhood Scars Oh, the joy of growing up in a strict household. If one thing is an excellent breeding ground for developing triggers, it’s that. And I wasn’t physically abused. It was ‘merely’ mentally, with the ever-present danger of being yelled at or sent to my room. Even today, I …
