I have no debt, except for my student loans. I despise being in debt to someone. If you ever lend me a Euro because I was short, you can count on it I’ll give it back to you the next time I see you. I remember how surprised the bank …
If there’s something I’m an expert in, it’s unrequited love.Yes, I’ve been with my husband for over ten years, but before that? I’ve suffered through years of heartbreak.It started when I was a teenager and in some ways, it never really ended. Teenage Troubles In the third class of high …
Sometimes I see a prompt, and I’m sure that I want to join. ‘Dragons’ was such prompt. I only need to look around me here to see my fascination with them. The thing is, it’s hard for me to explain why I like them so much. It was a conscious …
Tell Me About – Flogging I love to be flogged. We bought our first flogger many years ago at a fair in Belgium. It scared me quite a bit, and it wasn’t until years later that we actually started to use it frequently.While doing research for this post, I discovered …
Prioritise Funny how you can have a vague idea for a blog post floating around in your head and then coming across a meme that fits it perfectly. Yes, the word ‘Prioritise’ has been the prompt for the whole month of September, but only now did it match my mood …
Four Steps of Getting Things Back These past few weeks, I’ve not been well. I’m trying out a new diet in an attempt to lose some weight, but I’m struggling to find the right balance. It proves to be difficult to still get all nutrients and vitamins when forgoing all …
Content warning: Subjects include abuse, death of a parent and suicide My life consists of a series of events that have shaped me to be the person I am today. I know this counts for everyone, but I’m talking about significant events here. Childhood abuse, sexual assault, mental health problems …
Content Warning: Description of violence, destruction, murder The World Outside My Window When I look outside, I see green. Trees, grass, plants. I see my neighbour’s gardens. Calmness, quiet, peace. The world at ease. The perfect refuge. The world beyond is bleeding. People rioting. Statues being toppled. People being killed …
Content Warning: Virtual prostitution and dubcon scenarios Last week I was in a bad place. I was stressed out to the point where I started seeing stars in my vision. I’ve had it before, and it usually goes away after a few days of taking it easy. But just as …
A Changing World The world is changing. It always is, of course, but the past few months, the world has changed beyond recognition. I’m a sensitive person, and this affects me a lot. These changes are also why I’ve been more silent than before. My blog hasn’t been updated as …
