Music and Being Different I have a strong desire to be different. I want to differentiate myself from the crowd. I was raised to be that way. Ironically, when in high school, I did everything I could to fit in. Through music, I found a connection with my classmates and …
Service Submission I’ve always seen myself as an impatient and quite lazy person. Submissive too, yes, but not the easiest and most pliable one. My submissive dreams weren’t about serving men tea and coffee. In my wildest dreams, I serve men with my body, but with little choice or input …
Hindsight Going over your life with twenty-twenty hindsight sometimes leads to astounding revelations. And yes, they often appear at the most unexpected moments. I have one such example in my life. Well, there are probably more, but one that came to mind when I read this week’s prompt. It is …
Online Three years ago, while randomly browsing through AliExpress, I found cheap cross stitch kits. They were complete kits with a pattern, a canvas, floss and needles. And maybe you think they only sell boring old-fashioned sets with flowers, but that’s where you’re wrong. They carry a broad range of …
Blogging On April 30th 2019, I published my first blog post. Technically, it wasn’t the first. I had written some short posts announcing my books before, and I’d written some way too personal blog posts also, posts I have since deleted. But last year, I decided it was time for …
Self-Care – Tea To continue the series about self-care, proper food and drink are vital. My relationship with food is complicated, as I’ve described in this post. My relationship with drinking isn’t much better but has come a long way from where it once began. I want to make clear …
Favourite Sex Toys from an early age Since I was eighteen years old, I’ve always had a sex toy. My partner at the time bought me my first one, and I bought a second one soon after. Continuing with the theme of self-care, masturbation is, of course, vital. My vibey …
Self-Care This week marks the one-year anniversary of my blog. To celebrate this properly, I’m going to publish extra posts this week, all in the theme of self-care. Especially during these trying times, I thought it’d be nice to share with you the different ways I practise self-care and relaxation. …
Podcasts Since 2003 In 2003, I first became acquainted with the medium of podcasts. It was love at first sight (or hearing.) I started with shows by Adam Curry and the Dutch Catholic priest Fr Roderick, both of whom are still active in podcasting to this day. I even supplied …
Let’s Talk About Sex As you know, today’s society is unfriendly towards anything sex-positive. Everyone is fighting really hard to lose the freedoms we had attained over the years. Large online companies such as Facebook, and with it Instagram, Tumblr, Patreon and Paypal do everything in their power to cleanse …
