Picture of Liz in Bondage When I started this blog, I vowed I would never take pictures of myself. I don’t like the way my body looks, I’m quite stiff and clumsy, and I’m afraid to be recognised. But I do read other people’s blogs. And then I came across …
Blindfolds I love blindfolds. Almost every time we play, there’s a blindfold around my eyes. And if it doesn’t close off my eyesight enough, I’ll close my eyes myself. To me, it’s an instant journey into a submissive mindset and one step closer to subspace. So surely that counts for …
Play in BDSM Many people, myself included, talk about ‘play’ when talking about BDSM-related interactions. This has always struck me as odd. It’s not just a game to me. It’s part of my personality, part of who I am. And trust me, no matter how much I enjoy being spanked, …
Four Steps of Getting Things Back These past few weeks, I’ve not been well. I’m trying out a new diet in an attempt to lose some weight, but I’m struggling to find the right balance. It proves to be difficult to still get all nutrients and vitamins when forgoing all …
Having eye-contact is scary. In a way, eyes give me too much information. I feel like I can see through people, read their intentions and tell if they’re lying. But this is not 100% true. Often enough, I’ve been duped and betrayed.I’m sometimes clumsy in looking at people, doing it …
When the lockdown began, I was pretty chill about it. Sure, I can stay at home. No problem. Been doing that for the past four years. How hard can it be?And indeed, the lockdown brought few changes to my everyday life. My husband started to work from home full-time, I …
Content Warning: There are mentions of disease in this text Surrender One of the aspects of BDSM I struggle with is giving up control. Literally surrendering to my Dominant. No matter the circumstances, I’m always in control, or so I like to think. As the submissive, I know I’m supposed …
Discipline When we first started with spankings, I quickly went online to gather information. How did other couples incorporate this in their BDSM-lifestyle? Should it be a punishment? Can we do this daily?During this search, I found the ‘Domestic Discipline’ community. Many people do spankings regularly, both in- and outside …
Blue, Or Is It Pink? I hate the colour blue. I’m more a pink kinda girl. That said, my mother’s favourite colour was blue. Many items in my room as a kid, were of this shade. I once counted the number of things, but unfortunately, I don’t remember the exact …
BDSM My Dominant and I are not adventurous or daring. In general, we stay well within our limits. I feel you could make a case for all BDSM-play to be considered edge play. I know many vanilla people would shudder in disgust with how my husband treats me, where it …
