Independence Being independent is a theme throughout my life. For as long as I can remember, I’ve wanted to be independent one way or another. I’ve often chosen to form my circumstances so that I was independent. But not always. At the moment I’m the most dependent that I have …
Acoustic Growing up, I listened to a lot of acoustic music. My parents played a lot of classical music, which is acoustic almost as a default. As a teenager, I switched to pop music. It was through this style I connected with my friends, and it was definitely important, and …
Keeping a Diary Writing has always been important to me, both writing short stories and keeping a diary. As a kid, I had a diary. I remember writing short reports of when we went on outings, like to the theatre or to the zoo. It definitely had importance to me. …
A Changing World The world is changing. It always is, of course, but the past few months, the world has changed beyond recognition. I’m a sensitive person, and this affects me a lot. These changes are also why I’ve been more silent than before. My blog hasn’t been updated as …
Content Warning: There are mentions of disease in this text Surrender One of the aspects of BDSM I struggle with is giving up control. Literally surrendering to my Dominant. No matter the circumstances, I’m always in control, or so I like to think. As the submissive, I know I’m supposed …
For the longest time, I’ve been a lover of sex toys, gadgets and music. I have plenty of toys for each of these segments. I have a smartphone and a smartwatch. I also own Air Pods, so I can listen to my favourite music anywhere. Due to my reviewing work, …
Content Warning: There are mentions of bullying, abuse and sexual abuse in this text Spiritual Block I’ve mentioned it before: I’m a spiritual person. Loads of my decisions are based on emotions, on what I sense to be the right choice. What I’ve read about forgiveness is that it’s obligatory …
Love Poem goes War Anthem Lili Marlene, or Lili Marleen in German, is a song with a rich history. It was written as a silly love poem, and it had some success when it was put to music. The song was turned into a propaganda tool by the Nazis, only …
Discipline When we first started with spankings, I quickly went online to gather information. How did other couples incorporate this in their BDSM-lifestyle? Should it be a punishment? Can we do this daily?During this search, I found the ‘Domestic Discipline’ community. Many people do spankings regularly, both in- and outside …
