Play in BDSM Many people, myself included, talk about ‘play’ when talking about BDSM-related interactions. This has always struck me as odd. It’s not just a game to me. It’s part of my personality, part of who I am. And trust me, no matter how much I enjoy being spanked, …
Four Steps of Getting Things Back These past few weeks, I’ve not been well. I’m trying out a new diet in an attempt to lose some weight, but I’m struggling to find the right balance. It proves to be difficult to still get all nutrients and vitamins when forgoing all …
When the lockdown began, I was pretty chill about it. Sure, I can stay at home. No problem. Been doing that for the past four years. How hard can it be?And indeed, the lockdown brought few changes to my everyday life. My husband started to work from home full-time, I …
Content Warning: There are mentions of disease in this text Surrender One of the aspects of BDSM I struggle with is giving up control. Literally surrendering to my Dominant. No matter the circumstances, I’m always in control, or so I like to think. As the submissive, I know I’m supposed …
Discipline When we first started with spankings, I quickly went online to gather information. How did other couples incorporate this in their BDSM-lifestyle? Should it be a punishment? Can we do this daily?During this search, I found the ‘Domestic Discipline’ community. Many people do spankings regularly, both in- and outside …
Strange Times All you hear on TV, on the news, and even during commercials is: we’re living in strange times. And yes, they definitely are. In my day to day life, not much has changed. My husband works from home instead of from the office, and I don’t go out …
Service Submission I’ve always seen myself as an impatient and quite lazy person. Submissive too, yes, but not the easiest and most pliable one. My submissive dreams weren’t about serving men tea and coffee. In my wildest dreams, I serve men with my body, but with little choice or input …
Wuhan Last December, I followed the news about the outbreak of this new coronavirus in China. I didn’t pay too much attention to it. I was slightly amused at the fact that they held an entire city, roughly the size of my country, in quarantine. How was that even possible?A …
Blue, Or Is It Pink? I hate the colour blue. I’m more a pink kinda girl. That said, my mother’s favourite colour was blue. Many items in my room as a kid, were of this shade. I once counted the number of things, but unfortunately, I don’t remember the exact …
BDSM My Dominant and I are not adventurous or daring. In general, we stay well within our limits. I feel you could make a case for all BDSM-play to be considered edge play. I know many vanilla people would shudder in disgust with how my husband treats me, where it …
