Trigger warning: this blog post contains references to sexual violence. Fascinated Anal sex is a tough subject for me. If you ask me: Liz, do you like anal? My answer is: Yes! Give it to me all day every day. But… For several reasons, that’s unfortunately impossible. And not only …
“Is it okay if I touch you?” he asked. “Yes, please,” she moaned in response. “And is it all right if I kiss you?” he inquired. “Yes, please do.” “You’re really okay with me kissing you?” he asked to be sure. It is so much better when things are consensual, …
Where to Begin? Even though my husband and I connected because of our kink interests, our D/s wasn’t immediately the way it is now. Over the past ten years, we struggled to get it into a shape we both enjoyed. Early on, we both had losses in our families, we …
We Don’t Do Public Play Once a friend asked my husband and me: ‘Do you guys do public play?’ ‘No, no, no,’ we replied. ‘That’s not us.’ He continued: ‘I wish I had a partner with whom I could do play in public. You know, little things, like pulling hair …
No Hugs, Just Spanking I’m one of the most unromantic people in the world. That’s why I decided to take this challenge when I saw this meme. In all fairness, I push my husband away more often than that I show affection. I don’t do hugs, cuddles, and random kisses. …
All or Nothing Early on, I have acknowledged and accepted my submission. For the longest time, I craved having a sexual Dominant male in my life. In my dreams, I would give up everything. Without a clear picture of how this would impact my life, I wanted to surrender my …
Silence I come from a family of non-talkers, on both sides actually. We would talk about our day. We would talk about the music we liked, the movies we watched, where to go on vacation. But don’t you dare talk about your inner life. We didn’t share our ailments, our …
Degrading, Normal or Kinky This is a tough subject for me. I don’t always recognize what is humiliating and what isn’t. After all, it’s a complex emotion, and with how I’ve been raised, I don’t know exactly which things are considered to be ‘normal’ or ‘regular kinky’ and which aren’t. …
Bedroom Only Coming from an abusive youth, I never thought I’d like spankings, but I do. In the bedroom, that is. Several times we have tried to do spankings in the living room, but almost every time I freaked out, and we had to stop. It’s just the two of …
Tell me about … Trust I don’t trust. Anyone. Ever. So there you have it. End of story. I don’t trust anyone, not strangers, not people close to me, not even myself. But I am married, in a 24/7 D/s relationship with my husband who’s also my Dominant and I …
