Double Leather Slapper Cartoon – Nelliesz
New Sex Toy Review on http://www.lizxlikes.com: A Dutch hand-made real leather double slapper made by Nelliesz. The quality is high, the design is good, the print is cool.
Power Exchange: Pesky Real Life and Feasible Dreams
All or Nothing Early on, I have acknowledged and accepted my submission. For the longest time, I craved having a sexual Dominant male in my life. In my dreams, I would give up everything. Without a clear picture of how this would impact my life, I wanted to surrender my …
BDSM 101: Submission: Giving up Everything or Keeping Control?
First coming across the subject of submission can be intimidating. The idea of giving up control may turn you on, but what does this mean in real life? Should I submit to every dominant person I meet? Will I lose all of my personality? Do my wishes even count? I’m …
BDSM 101: Safe Sane and Consensual
Is BDSM Dangerous? The mainstream media depict BDSM as something highly dangerous. You see people with mascara-stricken faces with tears in their eyes. The emphasis is on latex, leather hoods, cuffs, whips, clamps. And yet, I don’t see BDSM as strictly dangerous. You seek limits, sure, so you might get …
BDSM 101: What is BDSM about?
Power + Trust + Fun The general idea people have of BDSM is that it’s dark, leather, and whips. That’s what you see in the media, for example in a crime show like CSI and Criminal Minds. Also, in Fifty Shades of Grey, the depiction of BDSM is quite dark …
Erotic Humiliation: Degrading and Painful, but It Has Its Purposes
Degrading, Normal or Kinky This is a tough subject for me. I don’t always recognize what is humiliating and what isn’t. After all, it’s a complex emotion, and with how I’ve been raised, I don’t know exactly which things are considered to be ‘normal’ or ‘regular kinky’ and which aren’t. …
My First Ventures into the BDSM community
The Need for Connection I’m not a group person. I prefer one on one contact so that I can make a genuine connection and talk in-depth with the other person. So why did I feel the need to join the local BDSM community? Like real life, with real people? Being …
Trust is Fragile, and I Have Little
Tell me about … Trust I don’t trust. Anyone. Ever. So there you have it. End of story. I don’t trust anyone, not strangers, not people close to me, not even myself. But I am married, in a 24/7 D/s relationship with my husband who’s also my Dominant and I …
It’s Dark and Erotic, but the D/s is unhealthy
Soul’s Desire by Melanie Gill My rating: 3 of 5 stars It’s Dark and Erotic, but the D/s is unhealthy Soul’s Desire – Melanie Gill Hmm, I’m conflicted about this book. It’s labeled in the genres: dark romance, paranormal romance, and erotic romance and so I figured there was little …
The Heat is On
What I Really Really Like This week’s prompt for the Erotic Journal Challenge is: What turns you on? The topic piqued my interest. Because, since I’m working as good as full-time on sexual topics, it actually took me quite some time to come up with the answer to this question. …