Having eye-contact is scary. In a way, eyes give me too much information. I feel like I can see through people, read their intentions and tell if they’re lying. But this is not 100% true. Often enough, I’ve been duped and betrayed.I’m sometimes clumsy in looking at people, doing it …
When the lockdown began, I was pretty chill about it. Sure, I can stay at home. No problem. Been doing that for the past four years. How hard can it be?And indeed, the lockdown brought few changes to my everyday life. My husband started to work from home full-time, I …
Content Warning: There are mentions of disease in this text Surrender One of the aspects of BDSM I struggle with is giving up control. Literally surrendering to my Dominant. No matter the circumstances, I’m always in control, or so I like to think. As the submissive, I know I’m supposed …
Discipline When we first started with spankings, I quickly went online to gather information. How did other couples incorporate this in their BDSM-lifestyle? Should it be a punishment? Can we do this daily?During this search, I found the ‘Domestic Discipline’ community. Many people do spankings regularly, both in- and outside …
Blue, Or Is It Pink? I hate the colour blue. I’m more a pink kinda girl. That said, my mother’s favourite colour was blue. Many items in my room as a kid, were of this shade. I once counted the number of things, but unfortunately, I don’t remember the exact …
BDSM My Dominant and I are not adventurous or daring. In general, we stay well within our limits. I feel you could make a case for all BDSM-play to be considered edge play. I know many vanilla people would shudder in disgust with how my husband treats me, where it …
Content Warning: This story contains themes of adultery and dubious consent. No characters were harmed during the recording of this tale. BDSM Sex Story The collar stared at me from the dashboard. I hated the symbol of our relationship. Our broken relationship, I should say. His betrayal had erased all …
Keep it Simple In our house, my husband is the one who says ‘I love you,’ sometimes up to ten times a day. I only get so far as ‘love you too,’ in response. Please don’t come home with flowers, since that’s only going to pose a danger to my …
Friends were my theme of 2019. I joined the BDSM community, and I discovered why I hadn’t been able to make friends for over twenty years: kink. I had several best friends during my high school years, but we connected over different things than sexuality. We had a similar lifestyle, …
Tell me About … Pain Everyone’s Emotions I’m an empath. I carry the weight of the world on my shoulders. I can read about a child with a severe disease, and it can literally ruin my day because I feel so sad for the child and its family. Yesterday my …
